Bon anniversaire François Arnaud. - b. July 5, 1985

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the word ‘bisexuality’ is a taboo

it isn’t said on tv. orange is the new black, for example, features a bisexual protagonist who points out the biphobia at one point in assuming she can’t be attracted to multiple genders, but no one Ever says the word and she is ignored and referred to as a straight girl or a lesbian depending on the situation

other bisexual characters later turn out to have been Really Monosexual All Along. or are attractive, promiscuous women with commitment issues

this isn’t a coincidence.

people who are attracted to multiple genders, when asked about it, often describe themselves as “Fluid”. “I’d rather not label it.” “I don’t need to define it.” “It’s just whatever.” as if people are afraid of even implying the b word (EDIT: PLEASE READ CLARIFICATION HERE i did not mean to imply fluid is a bad term on its own. it really isn’t. not wanting to label yourself isn’t a bad thing either.)

this isn’t a coincidence.

the word ‘bisexual’ gets you different reactions in different places. straight people think you’re either faking for attention or a deviant. straight men are afraid of bi men and think bi women are just particularly promiscuous straight girls who want to have threesomes with them

gay men accuse bi men of being in the closet. lesbians accuse bi women of being straight girls going through a phase. and the ones who don’t do either of these things still often assume bisexuals are promiscuous, indecisive, and can’t settle down.

the theme throughout is that bisexually is illegitimate, deceptive, and always a front for something else.

this isn’t a coincidence

people are constantly encouraged to ‘settle down’, to ‘just pick one’, to ‘not be greedy’. abandon bisexuality. you’re really gay. you’re really straight. you’re too young. how can you know you’re bisexual at 16? 18? 20? 25?

this isn’t a coincidence

the word ‘bisexuality’ is constantly, persistently manipulated, by people who aren’t bisexual at all. the meaning twisted on shallow rationale. accused of being transphobic, or of being exclusionary. this has been happening for over 20 years now despite the existence of outspoken trans and/or non-binary bisexuals. whatever they can do to make you not say the word. pick a different one.

this isn’t a coincidence

bisexual people - whether implied or literally, deliberately saying they are bisexual using the word - are constantly rewritten as gay or as straight. gay icon. he was never interested in men. bi actor comes out? headlines say ‘came out as gay’, or articles outright ignore it

it’s never, ever a coincidence. bi erasure is a constant, ongoing thing.

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Here’s my phone background, my novia Tali’Zorah Vas Normandy (from the game trilogy Mass Effect) being her swell and perfect self. fetchmemyrevolver found it and kindly gave me the picture as well, so now I have my novia with me at all times. Source
Now I tag fetchmemyrevolver, tamanegisensei, lowbrow and also jessicadoingthings (hehehehhe)

Tagged by the lovely revlovejoy

Here’s my phone background, my novia Tali’Zorah Vas Normandy (from the game trilogy Mass Effect) being her swell and perfect self. fetchmemyrevolver found it and kindly gave me the picture as well, so now I have my novia with me at all times. Source

Now I tag fetchmemyrevolver, tamanegisensei, lowbrow and also jessicadoingthings (hehehehhe)

davy-b-jones:

A little makeover for Thane … yes poor him, he should just change his tights sometimes :p !

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Un p’tit changement de look pour Thane… bin oui le pauvre, il doit bien changer de collants de temps en temps :p !

tigerbun:

songofages:

bluesigma:

thesimsofficial:

Brace yourselves…

Is that fucking GRRM on a sofa with modern cersei, joffrey, jon snow, oberyn, and dany…and death, naturally

Yes. yes it is.

Modern fucking Joffrey tho!

tigerbun:

songofages:

bluesigma:

thesimsofficial:

Brace yourselves…

Is that fucking GRRM on a sofa with modern cersei, joffrey, jon snow, oberyn, and dany…and death, naturally

Yes. yes it is.

Modern fucking Joffrey tho!

bonjanamu:

polka dot sneaker flats | use the code: bonjanamu for a discount!


stops at 8.5 tshh /team 10-11

bonjanamu:

polka dot sneaker flats | use the code: bonjanamu for a discount!

stops at 8.5 tshh /team 10-11

upallnightogetloki:

DUAL PHOTO SHENANIGANS:
The people working the booth told us “No hugs today” which bummed a lot of people out because we were VIPs and we paid over $300 for that package so it’s like “… we can’t even get hugs in a photo?”
But I’d hugged them in my solos so I wanted to be kinda different.
I walked up and Sebastian’s face is like “Wait, didn’t I JUST see you?” and Anthony’s face is like “Uh huh, back again I see.” and I’m just like YOOOOOOOO!
I was gonna have them both touch the fro but Sebastian did that in my solo so I asked them if we could do the can can.
They didn’t hear me at first so I repeated myself and Anthony’s like “Yea how’re we doing this?” and Sebastian is still like ???
FUN FACT: TURNS OUT SEBASTIAN STAN HAD NO FUCKING CLUE AS TO WHAT THE CAN CAN WAS UP UNTIL THAT FUCKING MOMENT!
I felt so bad y’all, I never would’ve asked if I’d known that but he didn’t say until AFTER the pic was over.
So Anthony’s left goes up, my left goes up and Sebastian puts his right up and nearly falls on me and I’m like D8 (This explains why I’m leaned in so hard into Anthony and why Seb is so far away- he actually kinda knocked me a bit off balance XDDD)
And Anthony, bless him, is like “The other leg, dude, the OTHER leg, GET IT TOGETHER!” which totally explains Sebastian’s facial expression.
The moment we come down, Anthony’s all “Dude, c’mon really?” and Sebastian was like “I DON’T KNOW WHAT THE CAN CAN IS!” WITH THE MOST PUT OUT EXPRESSION ON HIS FACE, ARMS FULL ON IN THE AIR LIKE “WTF DO YOU WANT FROM ME, ANTHONY?!?!” And they just start sniping and everyone’s losing it and I’m like “It’s alright, Sebastian! Thank you!”
So yea, that was that and that was fun. XD
These two made my life this weekend and it was worth every single dime I spent on this trip.
They need to do a comedy show together.

upallnightogetloki:

DUAL PHOTO SHENANIGANS:

The people working the booth told us “No hugs today” which bummed a lot of people out because we were VIPs and we paid over $300 for that package so it’s like “… we can’t even get hugs in a photo?”

But I’d hugged them in my solos so I wanted to be kinda different.

I walked up and Sebastian’s face is like “Wait, didn’t I JUST see you?” and Anthony’s face is like “Uh huh, back again I see.” and I’m just like YOOOOOOOO!

I was gonna have them both touch the fro but Sebastian did that in my solo so I asked them if we could do the can can.

They didn’t hear me at first so I repeated myself and Anthony’s like “Yea how’re we doing this?” and Sebastian is still like ???

FUN FACT: TURNS OUT SEBASTIAN STAN HAD NO FUCKING CLUE AS TO WHAT THE CAN CAN WAS UP UNTIL THAT FUCKING MOMENT!

I felt so bad y’all, I never would’ve asked if I’d known that but he didn’t say until AFTER the pic was over.

So Anthony’s left goes up, my left goes up and Sebastian puts his right up and nearly falls on me and I’m like D8 (This explains why I’m leaned in so hard into Anthony and why Seb is so far away- he actually kinda knocked me a bit off balance XDDD)

And Anthony, bless him, is like “The other leg, dude, the OTHER leg, GET IT TOGETHER!” which totally explains Sebastian’s facial expression.

The moment we come down, Anthony’s all “Dude, c’mon really?” and Sebastian was like “I DON’T KNOW WHAT THE CAN CAN IS!” WITH THE MOST PUT OUT EXPRESSION ON HIS FACE, ARMS FULL ON IN THE AIR LIKE “WTF DO YOU WANT FROM ME, ANTHONY?!?!” And they just start sniping and everyone’s losing it and I’m like “It’s alright, Sebastian! Thank you!”

So yea, that was that and that was fun. XD

These two made my life this weekend and it was worth every single dime I spent on this trip.

They need to do a comedy show together.

sexygeriatrics:

"Let’s pose like we’re on a romance novel cover."
"Okay!"
fckn sebstan I swear

sexygeriatrics:

"Let’s pose like we’re on a romance novel cover."

"Okay!"

fckn sebstan I swear

upallnightogetloki:

STORY TIME BEHIND HIS FUCKING FACE:
Ok so when it’s my turn to take the picture, I go up and I ask Sebastian what were we going to do for it like “What are we doing, Sebastian? What are we doing?” and he goes:
"I don’t know but your hair looks AMAZING!"
I’m like 8D *internal dying animal noises*
But I keep my cool and I’m like “Thank you! Would you like to touch it?” because this is just a thing that happens so I wanted to offer since he complimented it.
He was like “No but can I just rest my head on it.” and I you’re goddamn fucking right I said yes.
A stronger and far better woman than I might have said no, but I am not that woman.
BUT I DIDN’T KNOW THAT THIS WAS THE FACE YOU MADE, SEBASTIAN, YOU LITTLE SHIT! THIS EXPLAINS WHY THE GIRLS AFTER ME JUST FELL OUT LAUGHING OMG!
He looks so fucking happy laying in my hair though, like I can’t even breathe right now y’all and it’s been HOURS.
This is the man who actually leaned over and took a selfie with me even though the handlers said no.
This is the man who got in trouble for giving too many hugs despite the handlers giving him absolute glares of doom and faces of “WTF ARE YOU DOING SEBASTIAN?! WE SAID NO!”
This is the man who went out of his way to make each experience with his fans work out the way they wanted it to and who did it all with the most wonderful smile on his face.
This man… this absolutely dorky sweetheart of a beautiful man is everything.

upallnightogetloki:

STORY TIME BEHIND HIS FUCKING FACE:

Ok so when it’s my turn to take the picture, I go up and I ask Sebastian what were we going to do for it like “What are we doing, Sebastian? What are we doing?” and he goes:

"I don’t know but your hair looks AMAZING!"

I’m like 8D *internal dying animal noises*

But I keep my cool and I’m like “Thank you! Would you like to touch it?” because this is just a thing that happens so I wanted to offer since he complimented it.

He was like “No but can I just rest my head on it.” and I you’re goddamn fucking right I said yes.

A stronger and far better woman than I might have said no, but I am not that woman.

BUT I DIDN’T KNOW THAT THIS WAS THE FACE YOU MADE, SEBASTIAN, YOU LITTLE SHIT! THIS EXPLAINS WHY THE GIRLS AFTER ME JUST FELL OUT LAUGHING OMG!

He looks so fucking happy laying in my hair though, like I can’t even breathe right now y’all and it’s been HOURS.

This is the man who actually leaned over and took a selfie with me even though the handlers said no.

This is the man who got in trouble for giving too many hugs despite the handlers giving him absolute glares of doom and faces of “WTF ARE YOU DOING SEBASTIAN?! WE SAID NO!”

This is the man who went out of his way to make each experience with his fans work out the way they wanted it to and who did it all with the most wonderful smile on his face.

This man… this absolutely dorky sweetheart of a beautiful man is everything.